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Author: simply trying
Date: 09-23-03 12:15
Today my world came crashing down and I have been emotional all day and wounder how will I get over this....I can`t talk about the subject it is quite upsetting....I do wounder since this site has been a godsent in re to weightloss issues, if anyone knows of support groups forum for when something major happens in your life to put your world upside down, how to move forward......hope this makes sense...G
5` 4 and 3/4 inches
previous weightloss from 2002- 2003
jan 2002 --198 lbs/ down to 160 lbs
start losing weight again July 19th 2004
168 lbs/ 157 lbs / 145 lbs
inches lost from may 5th to-oct 2nd 2004=15.5in
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Author: BFL Michelle
Date: 09-23-03 12:51
There are all kinds of support groups out there. I would try typing in your situation in the search engine and see what comes up. Example if is a death type in grief counseling...cheating husband/boyfriend, type in just that etc...Hope this helps and you find someone to talk to.
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Author: simply trying
Date: 09-23-03 16:17
Thanks, that is the one problem I have...Can`t come up with a term to describe it...It is not death but part of me feels like it died today...It is not cheating husband, I think I could deal with that one better or even if he just told me he didn`t love me and was leaving I would find a way to cope...This is something that is touchy and I don`t know if my mariage will survive because we will never see eye to eye on the matter...
5` 4 and 3/4 inches
previous weightloss from 2002- 2003
jan 2002 --198 lbs/ down to 160 lbs
start losing weight again July 19th 2004
168 lbs/ 157 lbs / 145 lbs
inches lost from may 5th to-oct 2nd 2004=15.5in
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Author: Jenn
Date: 09-23-03 17:19
if you need to talk offlist.... feel free to email me!!! i am here for you!
HUGS!
jenn
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Author: BFL Michelle
Date: 09-23-03 17:38
Well, nothing would surprise me. I hope it DOES get better and I still think there would be a support group or someone with a similar experience. Good luck! Without know what is bothering you, I guess I can't be anymore help. I bet it's not as bad as you think. At least I really hope not.
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Author: BFL Michelle
Date: 09-23-03 17:42
You could do a search on personal coaching...? I have also found the self help section of a bookstore to be quite helpful at times. Sometimes you just need another person's perspective. I hope you have someone you can talk to. Feel free to email me personllay if you need to. I have been through some trying times myself.
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Author: Eric
Date: 09-23-03 18:27
Hey Ghislaine,
I feel for you. Whatever it is, take a deep breath and try to relax. Things probably aren't as bad as you think. But you do need to talk with someone, just to find out you aren't the only one in this situation. I wish I could be of some help, as you've been very helpful to me. I'd offer my listening services, but I'd probably just tell you a joke to try to make you feel better.
My email link is there if you need it.
I'll pray for you and your family...
Eric
I intend to live forever.....So far so good!
272/ /188 1.5 lbs. this week. I dare not say till the cast comes off
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Author: simply trying
Date: 09-24-03 04:55
Thanks everyone......I have tried to put my ? to a on-line councellor and should get a response within 72 hrs....As for knowing there somebody else out there with the same issue my heart trully hopes there isn`t.....My husband has told me he would give his arm to take back what he did and realize he majorly screwed up. I can`t stand to have him come near me or touch me because I feel so discusted...He was hoping to have things resolved last night after work....From his stupid actions the ball may still fall on our head so to speak...I want to say Thank You for your kindness , I did tell him that after working so hard at being positive that looking at life at being healthier and smaller has not really got any appeal at this moment when his actions cause me to pay the price.....He swears that I mean more to him then anything, obviously I didn`t mean enough...
Anyway sorry this is a weightloss board so I won`t continue this crap here...Hopefully tomorrow will be easier....G
5` 4 and 3/4 inches
previous weightloss from 2002- 2003
jan 2002 --198 lbs/ down to 160 lbs
start losing weight again July 19th 2004
168 lbs/ 157 lbs / 145 lbs
inches lost from may 5th to-oct 2nd 2004=15.5in
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Author: SassyGirl
Date: 09-24-03 05:53
Oh wow G, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. I'm not sure what it is, but I have a good idea from your previous post. If you need someone to talk to please let me know and I can add your name to my email list. I can't get email unless I have your address in there so let me know. Please don't give up your lifestyle change because of his mistakes. Keeping on track will make you feel stronger during this time. Hugs, hugs, hugs!
Smiles, Renee :)
"We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same."
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